Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2006 12:43 pm
Hi folks, I was hoping for a bit of advice you honest tradesmen and women who use this site. Over the years I've had a distant 'cousin' do wee building jobs for me, laid some slabs, fixed a fence etc. In return i've made him jewellery for his wife, son and daughter and had him quality letterheads, business cards etc. printed. (He def. came out tops if you work out the costs).
In January after a year of asking he started a small loft conversion for me. After 8 MONTHS of him and his workies turning up whenever they felt like it, I told him I was so fed up that i didnt want him to come back.
I gave him £600 cash at the start to cover the Velux windows and even though I asked EVERY time I saw him to let me know if he needed money for materials he always just said not to worry, we'd work something out.
He recently phoned and asked for £2,000. I told him no way as I've had to get most of the job re-done. He's now asking for £5,000!
I always pay on time and am a VERY good tipper (£200 extra to carpenter who did superb £500 job) so what can I do guys? Its not about the money but I'm not some idiot wee girl. The materials must have only been few hundred quid.
In January after a year of asking he started a small loft conversion for me. After 8 MONTHS of him and his workies turning up whenever they felt like it, I told him I was so fed up that i didnt want him to come back.
I gave him £600 cash at the start to cover the Velux windows and even though I asked EVERY time I saw him to let me know if he needed money for materials he always just said not to worry, we'd work something out.
He recently phoned and asked for £2,000. I told him no way as I've had to get most of the job re-done. He's now asking for £5,000!
I always pay on time and am a VERY good tipper (£200 extra to carpenter who did superb £500 job) so what can I do guys? Its not about the money but I'm not some idiot wee girl. The materials must have only been few hundred quid.